Why do I think I'm failing because other people are growing online faster?

The anxiety started not long after I sent Sunday morning's instagram post live. The post was one I was particularly proud of. I liked how the words went with the picture. And I liked how I had taken something as mundane as the topic of mud and made something creative out of it.

And even though the likes came rolling in, even when I received some lovely comments about how the caption went with the picture, the anxiety continued to grow. 

It was getting livelier and livelier. A pit of snakes. A troop of lively monkeys who had just drunk an energy drink. 

I felt restless. Despite it being a Sunday afternoon, traditionally the time I cosied up on the settee with a film (or, in yesterday's case the England rugby match). I brought my notebooks into the lounge and started to write and create. Not out of a sense of calm but because I felt I had to do something. A sense of duty towards my work.

According to my husband I became a bit snarly (I couldn't possibly comment). And I went to bed with thoughts weighing on my mind. 

Until, just as I was about to go to sleep, I had a bit of a revelation.

I know I'm not the only one who is affected by the ups and downs of Instagram. Jules has talked about how the number of likes her picture gets can affect her mood. But in this particular instance it wasn't the number of likes as such, it was comparing these likes with what other people were getting.

So my anxiety was centred around my (slow to medium) Instagram growth and what I should be doing to 'up my game' to achieve faster growth.

There are lots of lovely advice posts out there on what I could be doing. But I was struggling to adapt the advice to my own feed. (Let me stress at this point that it's not them - it's me!)

And that's when it occurred to me just as I was falling asleep. I don't have to do what other people are doing to grow their instagram (I mean, duh! of course I don't!). I have my own vision, my own goals. Why am I being distracted by other people's incredible numbers?

And why am I thinking I'm failing because other people are growing faster?

I mean - how mad is that? I'm failing because other people are getting bigger numbers? Seriously, I need to get a grip.

As I've said before - but obviously need constant reminding - I am carving my own path as an online storyteller. 

The story is often what comes to me first before I create an Instagram picture.

A sentence like my post going live today (pictured below). I was stomping around my field and the words 'signs of life amongst nature's decay' came to me. So I created a post showing decay and life in that post.

I'm inspired and influenced by the seasons and how my creativity (or lack of) is going. And I like to tell that story in both the caption and the picture. So I just post what feels right for me not my feed. 

I'm not saying my way is the right way or the only way. I'm just saying we're all different.

And if you're finding the online advice doesn't suit you then, even though it's a bit harder, you have to find your own way. Experiment. Push yourself. But try and remember why you're on instagram in the first place.

And don't compare yourself, however much your mind wants to, with others. 

Do you ever feel like this? Does your creative online journey feel different to others? 

How I Gained over 15,000 Instagram Followers

I feel a bit strange writing that title. How I gained followers. Because, to me, Instagram is a community. It's a place to share photographs, stories and inspiration. And I've never seen the people who follow me as just a number.

It's a fun, creative, inspiring community. Without it, I would never have dared share my writing, gained new skills and confidence, or 'met' so many supportive people. For that I am incredibly grateful.

But I know many of you are intrigued. How did I convince so many people to click on the follow button? It has been a long journey. Just over a year, in fact, to get to this point. Instagram, like blogging, like so many social media engagement platforms, has no get-followers-quick recipe. Unless you buy followers and I really do NOT recommend you do that for so many reasons.

So, how did I do it? This is what worked for me:

1. Take Good quality photographs

This is imperative. You cannot have fuzzy, out-of-focus pictures on your feed. Or pictures taken in bad lighting. Each photograph has to be crisp and clear. And taken in natural light.

It's difficult during the winter months, especially if you work during the day and you desperately want to take a picture of a stunning cake you made in the evening. Believe me, I've been there. But using your kitchen light does not make a good photograph. It makes the photo look yellow and unappealing.

I did this a lot in the beginning. Not just on Instagram but on my early blog posts. I remember taking a picture of a stew (why?!) and some anonymous person commented that it looked a mess. He was right. Rude, but right.

Nowadays if I'm busy during week days I'll take photographs at the weekend to share during the week.

(Incidentally all of my IG pictures are taken with my iPhone 6s+. When I upgraded last year it was a game-changer.)

2. Use filters to create a consistent and cohesive look

On the subject of the quality of the photographs there is no shame in using filters. It's not cheating at all. In the days before digital photographs there would be tinkering in the darkroom by the photographers to get the effect they wanted. Using filters, altering the contrast, exposure, saturation and so on after you've taken the photograph is no different. It is part of the creative process.

I use VSCO on my iPhone to create a cohesive look to my photographs. It's free but some filters are in-app purchases.

3. Look at your grid - how does each individual photo fit in?

You've taken a stunning photograph. It's getting lots of likes and it's all incredibly exciting. Yet these likes aren't converting into followers. The reason? Well, take a look at your grid. Your top three lines of pictures. Is it attractive? Does it look cohesive? Or, does it look like a mish-mash of different subjects? Maybe some pictures are good and some out of focus. Or you have a nice grid with one odd one or two pictures of a lively night out in there with your friends.

The top left picture in my above grid of the lemon cake made it to the explore page and gained well over 2000 likes. That picture alone gained me 400 followers in 24 hours. Because when they clicked on my profile this was the grid that greeted them. (I don't say this to brag, by the way. It's just what worked!)

4. Who is your audience?

You have to think about what you want to use Instagram for. Is it for sharing personal pictures with your friends and family? Or, is it to grow a platform and gain an audience? If it's the former you can post whatever you like. You don't need this article. But if it's the latter then you need to share only your best photographs. A grid of  beautiful flowers with a picture of three friends stuck in the middle will look a bit odd. And will possibly stop a person from clicking that follow button.

5. What's your story and theme?

What's your feed about? Mine is about slow living through baking, reading, writing, nature and chicken-keeping. I’m trying to show my creative journey – a journey that has taken lots of twists, turns and false starts. I’m exploring my creativity and I’m very honest and open about my writing and my career path. All my photographs are consistent with this message. People follow me because they know what they're getting.

Because I'm a writer I decided to start sharing my writing. This was in the form of recipes, of my notes and my short non-fiction stories. And that is when my Instagram started to take off.

I started to get creative with it. And my confidence grew. I shared a little chicken doodle with my writing and it captured people's attention. Without getting all woowoo here, I think this was because I wasn't just sharing my writing or a drawing, but I was opening up part of me. My vulnerability. I know lots of people are inspired because I don't just say 'this is the finished product'. But I'm sharing my process and how I'm striving to achieve my ambitions.

If you're a writer or creative then sharing your work-in-progress is so fascinating for others. You still need to curate the picture (messy desks with crumbs and scrunched up paper are probably best for your Instagram Stories) which I do by straightening the notebooks (I like straight lines!). I also add my pot of pencils plus a coffee to many of my notebook shots.

Now, I'm not saying you have to have a theme - this is simply something that worked for me.

My pictures in the past would verge towards the over-saturated. Bright whites with vivid colours. I decided if my story was slow living the look of my pictures also needed to reflect that. So I calmed my photograph colours down, used different filters and gradually, almost on its own accord, a softer colour palette started to emerge.

6. Take time to Experiment

This is very much related to the point above. But get creative. Experiment. Use other instagrammers for inspiration. Pinterest is also another place I find inspiration. (I've a board especially for that.)

7. Use relevant Hashtags

If you want to grow your account then hashtags are very important. They're a way of putting your work in front of an audience who don't yet follow you. But don't use hashtags to describe the object in the photograph. If I had a picture of a cake I wouldn't, for example, use #cake or #delicious. I would use hashtags that evoke the mood. #forahappymoment #embracingaslowerlife are just two of the hashtags I used on one of my cake shots recently.

Hashtags are created by instagrammers. So, for example, Embracing a Slower Life, is one of mine. I wanted to see a gallery of photographs that celebrated the slower things in life that give us joy. That make us slow down and reflect.

Have a look around and find out what hashtags other people are using. If you're a small account don't go for hashtags with over 100,000 pictures on them. Go for smaller ones where you will get seen. Yes, it'll be to a smaller audience, but it'll be your audience.

Oh, and a word of advice. Don't put a hashtag on that is irrelevant to the picture. It spoils the galleries and people really don't like that.

8. think about your Captions

I could write an entire blog post about captions. In fact I probably will at some point in the future. I use captions to practice my creative non-fiction writing. To evoke a mood or place. Not every time but often. I find it a joy to write because I do it quickly without over-thinking it. The potential for captions, especially for the writers reading this, is huge.

9. Take time to Engage

There's very little point in uploading a good quality photograph, putting on the relevant hashtags, writing a thoughtful comment or mini-story then sitting back and waiting for people to like the picture and follow you. You have to engage with other people. Instagram is about a community that benefits from each other. You cannot just go in there and see what you can get out of it. You have to contribute too. Like other people's photos, scroll through hashtags or the explore page and like and follow accounts that attract you. Comment on their pictures. And if someone comments on your picture,  reply and go over to their page. You don't have to auto-follow but a like on their latest picture is always nice. (Unless it is a highly inappropriate image!)

Sometimes, however, you may get just a comment like 'this is awesome', a thumb up emoji or similar. This is possibly a bot. A computer bot that likes and comments on photos for instagrammers who have paid for this service in order to grow a following. Don't feel you have to respond to these. Only those who genuinely engage.

10. Show up regularly and consistently

Finally (for now) what worked for me was showing up almost every day. I post in the morning around 7.15am during the week or 9am on a Sunday. That's when my audience is there. That's when they expect to see me. Even with the changes in the algorithm it still pays to turn up at the same time on a regular basis. And what I post is consistent. People know I'm not going to suddenly start posting beach shots, for example. Or pictures of bridges.

Want some specific help with your Instagram? Then take a look at my Instagram Audit service.

Five Ways Writers Can Use Instagram

Instagram is a wonderful place for creatives. Knitters, weavers, illustrators, photographers. So many people showing their work, talking about it, showing their process, their inspirations. But I never see many writers there. Perhaps because it's a photo-sharing app so writers aren't immediately drawn to it. But I think it's a fabulous place for writers; a great place to grow your audience and to be inspired and connect with other creatives.

Want some ideas? Here are five ways you could make Instagram work for you.

1. Show us where you work. Your desk, the table at the coffee shop, a crumpled duvet cover with notebooks scattered around. Cups of coffee, pots of tea and cake, stacks of books and notebooks are adored on Instagram. People love to see where writers are writing. I know I do. Don't you?

2. Show us your work. Your notepads, notes, ideas and rough drafts. This is one of my favourite things to share on Instagram and it has inspired my creativity as well as given me ideas for blog posts and non-fiction. Again it's that need to see how an author works and how they create.

3. What inspires you? Nature, buildings, front doors, cities, roads, chickens (the last one might be just me). Take a photograph and show us. Then tell us about it, why does it inspire you?

4. Use your captions creatively. Create some flash fiction or flash non-fiction to go with the photograph. Or use it as a prompt for others thereby creating a community. Really think about your caption - use it as a place to practice your descriptive writing. As you took the photograph what could you smell, hear, taste?

The day breaks. A muted crow from the cockerel. Breath chuffing like a steam train. Frost so heavy the ice is over an inch thick. A solitary leaf on a silver birch smothered in miniature icicles. Crunchy water in the stream. The willow weeps tiny flakes of ice onto my shoulders. Hands, stuffed into pockets, feeling like they're burning. A heron rises in front of me and soars over the field. The sun appears, liquified orange merging with the landscape. The orb's glow spreads around my heart.

5. Show us what you're reading. Have you heard of the bookstagram community? It's huge. Readers photograph their current read and chat about it in the description.

I'm using Instagram more and more like a micro-blog. I use it to share my notebooks, my desk, my writing process, books I'm reading but also to share what I'm seeing and feeling outside. 

Tips

• Always use (your own) good quality, non-blurry photographs taken in natural light.

• Think about using a filter so when you look at the grid as a whole (the top three or four lines) there is a cohesiveness and attractiveness to it. I use VSCO.

• Use hashtags to increase your reach. Don't use #writing #desk #coffee - these are far too generic. Hashtags are used to evoke a mood or an action. #createmakeshare #makersandthinkers and #momentsofmine are just three of the hashtags I used in one of my notebook shots.

• Think about your profile page. Tell us you're a writer. Link to your blog, website or twitter.

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